From Colombia to the Netherlands: Culture Shock and Life Lessons
Traveling to another country doesn't just mean changing the scenery: it also means changing within yourself.
When a girl from Colombia arrives in the Netherlands as an au pair, she experiences a culture shock that is surprising at first, but over time becomes one of the greatest sources of learning and personal growth.
The first impact: what's different
Culture shock is felt from day one.
Transportation by bike: instead of crowded buses, you see thousands of bicycles and well-organized bike lanes.
Direct communication: the Dutch say what they think honestly and clearly.
The weather: gray days, unexpected rain, and cold winters that test your resilience.
Family customs: punctual schedules for everything, from meals to children's bedtimes.
At first, it may feel overwhelming, but it's precisely that difference that challenges you to adapt and grow.
What you learn from culture shock
Each difference brings a valuable lesson:
Autonomy: moving around alone in a safe and organized city gives you a sense of freedom.
Confidence: you discover that you can communicate in another language, even if it's difficult at first.
Tolerance: you learn to respect customs different from your own, without judging them.
Resilience: moments of homesickness or frustration turn into inner strength.
"During the first month I cried because I missed my family and didn't understand everything. Today, months later, I feel that I grew more in this time than in my entire life before."
The value of community
Although culture shock can feel lonely, you are never truly alone. Bon Voyage supports every au pair before, during, and after their journey. On top of that, there's a community of Latin girls who share experiences, advice, and emotional support. That network becomes your second family.
How your worldview changes
After a year in the Netherlands, you no longer see the world the same way:
You have more self-confidence.
You know you can adapt to the unexpected.
You recognize that cultural diversity is a richness, not an obstacle.
Culture shock becomes a mirror of your own growth: what once felt difficult turns into pride.
A stronger version of yourself
You will return to Colombia with unforgettable memories: your first rainy bike rides, the typical foods you learned to try, the friends you made from all over the world. But most importantly, you return as a stronger, braver, and more open version of yourself.
✨ FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions):
Is it difficult to adapt to Dutch culture?
Yes, at first it can be challenging, but over time it becomes one of the most enriching parts of the experience.
What if I feel lonely or homesick?
You are not alone. Bon Voyage and the au pair community are always there for you, and that network becomes your main support.
What does this culture shock leave me with for my future?
It makes you a more resilient, tolerant, and self-confident person—qualities that are highly valued in both studies and the workplace.