How to Convince Your Parents: Safe, Supported, and Purposeful

We know that when you tell your family about your desire to become an au pair in Europe, the first thing your parents feel is worry. And that's okay they do it because they love you. The good news is that you can give them clear and honest information so they understand that this experience is safe, supported, and truly beneficial for your future.

Why do parents hesitate at first?

In Latin America, many families are still not familiar with the "gap year" culture. For parents, the idea of their daughter traveling alone to another continent can raise questions like:

• "Will it be safe?"

• "Won't you lose time for your studies?"

• "Who will take care of you if something happens?"

These doubts are normal. Your job is to show them that there's a well-structured plan, with clear rules and constant support.

What Bon Voyage guarantees to parents

✅ Verified host families: we only work with accredited partners in the Netherlands.

✅ Safety and well-being: you'll have your own private room, medical insurance, and a regulated schedule (max. 30 hours per week).

✅ Continuous support: we guide you before your trip, support you upon arrival, and stay in touch throughout your stay.

✅ Community network: you'll be part of a group of Latina au pairs and mentors who have already lived this experience.

With this, your parents can feel at ease: you will never be alone.

How to talk to your parents

• Listen to their fears first. Show them that you understand their concerns.

• Explain the benefits. You'll improve your English, grow as a person, and enjoy a year full of unique experiences.

• Show them your plan. Share the support provided by Bon Voyage, the agreement with your host family, and the system of permanent communication.

• Highlight safety. The Netherlands is one of the safest countries, with clear rules for au pairs.

What your parents will realize over time

At first, they may feel afraid. But with the right information, they'll see that this year is not a risk—it's a safe and valuable opportunity.

Many parents of our au pairs later admit:

"She came back more mature, with better English, and with a worldview she could never have gained here. It was the best decision."

Turn worry into trust

Talking to your parents isn't about convincing them with empty promises it's about giving them clarity. Once they see it's not a leap into the unknown, but a guided journey, they will feel confident.

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